Grisha’s Circle Songs for Kinship Tending: You Belong!

Pacific Northwest Songleader and Community Grief Tender: Pocket Songs for Joy and Healing

Tending kinship is a sacred duty, healing the wounds of belonging that have led to so much suffering for our human and non-human kin. Kinship tending is something we can all do to make a world in which all beings can thrive.

The songs I catch are medicine for community, with the theme of “Dream big enough for all of us.” Most are Pocket Songs – little short bites to carry with you wherever you go.

Many of them are written specifically for community grief rituals, which I co-lead with Alison Roffman, LCSW. Learn more at StellarVillage.com. Each of these simple songs carries a little bit of magic to uplift your spirit or untangle something that’s gotten stuck. They’re trauma-informed and written with care. My muse and beloved husband Tom is pictured here with me, because these songs flow through, in part, because I am so known and held. And he also provides an endless soundboard and a magical guitar gift to craft this music.

Some of my songs are below. The recordings are basic and they don’t have all the harmonies, but it’s a start. You are welcome to sing these in song circles, just give credit to me, Grisha Stewart (and cowriters if there are some, see the songbook).

You are also welcome to make up harmonies when sharing! Rights reserved for recordings that are sold.

You can download my Circle Songbook or view it below the songs. It has the words for many (but not all) of the songs) and some songs not provided in recorded format. I also have an album on Spotify and such with some of my singer-songwriter songs. It’s called My Life is a Metaphor for My life.

To book a song circle or request that I add another recording or fix something, please use my Contact Form and select Songleading/Grieftending.

Ancestors Remind Me (2024)

Ancestors & Future Ones (2024)

Arms Open Wide (2021)

Awkward has Time to Turn to Tender When We Slow Down (2024)

Being Being Guided (with harmony) (2023)

Circle of Trees (2023)

Day By Day, Drop By Drop (2022)

Dream Big Enough for All of Us (2024)

Home Wherever I Go (2021)

Learning to Love (2024)

Lettin That FOMO Go (with Tom Clark, 2024)

Love is a River (2020)

Light Illuminates Our Way (with Tom Clark, 2021)

I Give Myself Permission (2023)

It’s OK to Teach Me (with Tom Clark, 2021)

May I Be Free From Enmity (2022)

Now In This Moment (pause to breathe between reps) (2024)

On to Something Big (2023) – as a round

Owie Song (2024) [Thank you for letting me know my words landed in an owie place]

Say Hello (2023) – zipper song

Thanks Mom (Mother’s Day Song, 2024)

Turn to Love (2021)

Water Flows Through Stone (2024)

We Gather Together (Grisha Stewart, 2024)

Welcome Song (2023)

We Share This Planet (2023)

Wind In the Leaves (with Tom Clark, 2022)

You Belong (2022)

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